With Flair Tea Room
105 Old Drive
Chesapeake, VA
757-436-7077
#4
of 57in VA
Hours
Tue - Sat: 11:00am to 2:00pm

Reviews
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Variety: Held our wedding reception here and it could not have gone better. Pam, the owner, was so eager to make our wishes come true. Everything was top notch, food was excellent and service with mile wide smiles and very courteous. Oh, price was just right too. Made for a wonderful, lasting memory. Thanks Pam! |
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- Sandy & Ron Lowry 10/29/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Sandy & Ron,Thank YOU for allowing us to host your wedding reception at this special time in your life. We are thrilled that you liked it, and we wish you both the very best as you start your new life together. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: My sister-in-law and family live in Great Bridge, my husband and I live near Buffalo, NY. We just returned home from a one week visit with my hubby's family. My sister-in-law took me to tea at 'With Flair' and it was absolutely lovely. I dined on the chicken salad served with tea bread and fresh fruit. The food was delicious and the presentation was inviting. We splurged on bread pudding with lemon curd for dessert. Awesome! We had an opportunity to visit with Pam after lunch and she was so sweet to take the time for us. I will definitely suggest lunch there again the next time we visit Chesapeake. Thank you Pam! |
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- Paula Eick & [sister-in-law] Cindy Mast 10/10/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Paula,Your comments mean so much, especially coming from out of town! We are so glad to have the privilege of facilitating your special time with family. Whenever you are in town, please don't hesitate to stop by! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: Several alumni from Granby High School enjoyed lunch at your tea room on September 8, 2009. Our server was very hands on, and served us a delicous lunch...we especially enjoyed the crab cakes. When dessert time came, Pam delivered fresh out of the oven cakes and cobblers. We'll be back! |
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- Judy, June and Dottie 09/16/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Judy, June, and Dottie,We are so pleased that you enjoyed your lunch at our tea room. I see it as my ministry in life to bless others through food and fellowship. Thank you for your business, and come see us again soon! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: We had a group lunch today at 'With Flair'. The service was excellent; and so was the food; I especially loved the lobster bisque soup, it was to die for! The tea selection is excellent; There are many to choose from! Pam (the owner) is very warm and friendly, and took care of all nine of us flawlessly. I would highly recommend visiting With Flair whenever you get the chance!! |
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- Donna Julian 09/08/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Donna,Thank you so much for bringing your group to the tea room. Your group was a delight, and you all are welcome any time! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: My daughter and I hosted a bridal luncheon tea at With Flair Tea Room on Saturday, September 5, 2009. We were able to get in early to put the favors on the table and treated like 'royalty'. The teas were wonderful, the food was delicious, and the service was excellent. It was a relaxing time. All of our guests seemed to have had a marvelous time. Thank you so much for this beautiful experience. |
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- Pat Dunkley 09/07/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Pat,You're welcome! In our eyes you and your guests ARE royalty, and we love bringing joy and delight to others! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: Early in May I made reservations for a special tea party for my grand daughter to be held on June 6th. This would be a great step up from out 'kool-aid' tea parties at home. The last week of May, I stopped by to confirm everything. Pam told me of the situation with the 'cake in the bathroom' and needed to refund my deposit as she was remodeling/re-evaluating the child's tea and searching for the right server to work with the children. My daughter & family are moving to Spokane, WA on June 18th and the tea party was very, very important to my grand daughter! I explained the situation & Pam was most gracious to keep my reservations & host the party herself. Today, June 6th, was a great memory & experience for my grand daughter & 5 friends at the children's tea. My 2 dau... (more) |
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- RK Sessoms 06/06/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear RK,Thank you so much for putting your faith in me and my Tea Room, and for giving us such kind words of encouragement. I feel blessed to have been given the opportunity to serve your guests of all ages, and I'm so happy that we were able to help create wonderful memories for you all. I pray that your daughter and granddaughter will have safe travels and a blessed life in their new home, and I look forward to seeing you again soon. Have a great day! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: On Sunday, May 31st, I attended a Meet and Greet hosted by my sister in law. I knew everything would be perfect because we had booked this venue for a previous gathering. Pam- the owner goes out of her way to make sure everything has that personal touch of flair and in our experiences, the food and teas have been delicious! If you are looking for a special place to host a gathering for a baby shower, bridal shower, or just a girls day out- you will not be disappointed here. Thanks Pam for making Sunday so special for us! |
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- Donna Tefft 06/04/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Donna,Wow! I am so humbled and grateful that you trusted us with your business yet again. We love having you at the tea room and appreciate your words of encouragement. I hope you were very blessed when you came, and we look forward to having you for lunch or other event in the future. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I attended my second event at 'With Flair', and I must say what a wonderful experience. The atmosphere was perfect for our gathering. The menu consisted of chicken salad croissants, pasta salad and fruit. All was superb! We had lemon cake for dessert, and I wish I could have had a slice to take home. I would like to thank Pam for her hospitality. Even though it is a restaurant, she put such a personal touch on the whole event. I can speak for everyone who attended the event, that they were very impressed. Fun was had by all, and we never felt rushed to wrap up the event. I would highly recommend With Flair for any occasion you wish to make extra special. Thank you Pam for making us feel so welcomed. |
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- Rose Schoepke 06/03/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Rose,Thank you for your kind words! I am so grateful for the opportunity to bless you all at such a special occasion, and I'm glad you felt the personal touch that I try to put on every event. That is truly the 'flair' that our name refers to. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I had the pleasure of hosting a 'Meet & Greet,' which included my family and my son's future family, and extended family on Sunday, May 31st. A total of 22 adult ladies, and 3 children attended this well-orchestrated event. The food, service and atmosphere not only met my expectations, but well exceeded them. The whole experience was truly memorable and wonderful, thanks to Pam and her wonderful Staff. The Chicken Salad Croissant, Pasta Salad and Fresh Fruit presentation was made to perfection and the Lemon Cake was out of this world! This is the second event I have hosted at With Flair, and I would recommend this venue without hestiation, to anyone who wants to enjoy an afternoon lunch/tea with a friend or family member and/or someone considering hosting a memorable and unique event. Thank you Pam for a another job well done! Sandra Johnson |
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- Sandra Johnson 06/03/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Sandra,I am so blessed to have been given the opportunity to facilitate the meeting of your families at such a happy occasion, and I'm happy you liked my lemon cake! Please feel free to call us anytime to check if we have lemon cake on the menu that day - we'd be happy to save you a piece! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I chose to take my friend to lunch at the tea room and we had a great time catching up and enjoying our teas. The quiche was delicious...it's rare you find quiche on a lunch menu anywhere...my friend raved about the crabcake. I'll be back again, especially for the chocolate pie! And I'm bringing some friends for a Royal Tea next month...the last one I went to here was fabulous. |
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- Linda Fulton 06/01/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Linda,Thank you for returning to our tea room with a friend! I love providing a nice place for girlfriends to have quality time together. I can't wait to see you again soon! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: My sister-in-law hosted a 'Meet and Greet' for our family to meet her son's 'Family To Be' yesterday afternoon. We had a wonderful time and the food was delcious. My baby shower was hosted at With Flair in 2007 so this was the second event I attended. Both experiences were really great ones! I recommend With Flair for any special occasion. |
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- Lori Schoepke 06/01/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Lori,It was great to see you again, and I'm glad that you had fun at the tea room once again. Please come back and see us anytime. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: What a poor establishment to hinder the memory of a child's birthday party. It is a shame that nothing was done to rectify the situation during the birthday party. Shame on the owner and the workers present. Parents go to great lengths to plan parties that leave lasting memories for their children...How disappointing...I would never select this venue for a party..Thanks for the post!!! |
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- M. Ritz 05/27/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear M. Ritz,Please view my response to Cindy. I am truly sorry for the situation that occurred with her party, and have made full restitution to her. I would also like to extend my apologies to you. You are right that memories are important, and it has always been our heart to give each group a wonderful experience. In this situation we have made every restitution that we could, and have used the experience to learn, make changes, and to hopefully improve for the future. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I love this place! I usually come once every few weeks for lunch and I enjoy it everytime! You couldn't ask for better service, a better atmosphere or food choices. I love the soups and the deserts are exceptional! I love bringing a friend with me so she can experience the tea room too!! |
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- Ruth B. 05/18/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Ruth,Thank you! Knowing that we make a difference for people like you is what keeps us going in these economically challenging times. I appreciate your faithful business. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I attended my granddaughter's birthday party on May 16, 2009 and it was a disaster. After driving for thirty-five minutes to get to the tearoom, we were never seated and after waiting nearly an hour, decided to leave and lunch elsewhere. The reservations were made well in advance. The birthday cake was found by one of the mothers on the bathroom floor...uncovered. This was disappointing. Though the atmosphere is very nice, we did not et the service we expected. With the cost of this party, I felt it was mishandled. |
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- Linda Swain 05/17/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Linda,Please forgive us for the mishandling of your granddaughter's party, and for not properly welcoming you into our establishment. We had a table ready for you, but failed to realize that you had already arrived. I apologize, and I encourage you to read my response to Cindy. I want you to know that I have made full restitution to her, and though I cannot go back to re-do the past, I have made several major changes in order to improve for the future. Again, please forgive us. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I had my child's birthday party at With Flair on May 16th. I invited the mom's to stay for tea & lunch while the girls tea arty was going on. The entire party was a disaster. One of my guest informed me that my child birthday cake was on a plate on the bathroom floor, yes the floor of the bathroom. Imagine the shock & embarrassment of being told this by a quest. The only quests in the restaurant were my party and two other women. I requested an extra table for my mother & sister( which I had requested days in advance) it was never set up & my mother left. My daughters party lacked planning. There was no craft as promised, only a coloring sheet, no games & then party ended with a half hour left with nothing for the children to do. During the child party myself and another parent ... (more) |
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- Cindy Jones 05/17/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Cindy,You have every reason to be upset with the way Victoria's birthday party was mishandled. I am appalled to know the details of exactly what occurred. When you brought the situation with the birthday cake to my attention, I was shocked! That cake was disposed of and a lemon cake was substituted, which you very graciously accepted. This has been a very difficult lesson for me, but I appreciate you taking the time to bring it to my attention. I have made the decision to not schedule any children's parties until I have a competent individual to coordinate them. I take full responsibility for what happened and again very sincerely apologize for the embarrassment it has caused you. There is no excuse for the lack of attention and service received by your guests and yourself. Again, I profusely apologize for all that occurred and my eyes have truly been opened by this unfortunate occurrence. Changes must be made immediately. Because of the unfortunate circumstances you have experienced, I have provided a complete refund of all expenses. Sincerely, Pam Fogle |
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Variety: I come here at least twice a week for lunch. The food and the atmosphere are wonderful. The desserts, made fresh and from scratch by the owner, are the best you can find anywhere! I love coming here and will keep coming back! |
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- Jasyn 04/20/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Jasyn,Thank you for visiting us so often through the years. The staff and I consider you to be like family, and I am so happy that you love our atmosphere and food. We look forward to seeing you in the future. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I hosted my best friends bridal shower at With Flair Tea Room and I must say that I was throughly impressed and from the comments I received from the guests they were pleased as well. The owner, was extremely helpful seeing that I was plannnig this event from over 100 miles away. The food and service was impeccable and will highly recommend this tea room for any event. With the quality of service; made the price unbelieveble you indeed get much more than you pay for. Thanks again Pam for everything. |
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- Mj 04/13/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Mj,Wow! You bring tears to my eyes from your kind compliments. What can I say? I'm so happy to hear that we helped to make the long-distance planning process easier for you, and that we were able to deliver a great experience for you at a value-able price in this economy. I appreciate your feedback! Please let us know if we can ever assist you again. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I was invited to an event at With Flair Tea Room just a few months ago and had a delightful experience. I had no idea what a treat I was in for. The atmosphere was very warm and inviting along with the food selection and tea choices. I am secretly fallling in love with Chai Tea and loved being able to try other teas during the evening. I will continue to spread the word and visit again in the very near future. This is truly a tearoom like no other where it's clear that the menu choices and teas are prepared with LOVE! |
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- Kristy 04/08/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Kristy,I got a real chuckle at your mention of a secret love affair with Chai tea. I am glad that we 'introduced' you to that wonderful experience. Next time you come you have to try our Holiday Chai tea. It is Chai with rum and gingerbread flavors. Delicious! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I just attended a bridal shower at the With Flair Tea Room. It was fantastic. The food was delicious. I loved the orange scones. They were delicious. I was also able to try the clotted cream. The tea was great. Everything was served in beautiful china. The owner and staff were very nice, helpful, and prompt. I really enjoyed myself and i can not wait to go back. |
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- Sarah 03/31/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Sarah,You are so sweet! I must admit my own weakness for scones and clotted cream. They ARE wonderful! I'm so glad you enjoyed yourself at the bridal shower, and hope you will come again soon. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I was very pleased to see such a cute, cozy, and quaint spot. It reminded me of times with my great aunts in Canada who always served tea with their collection of beautiful tea cups. It was fun trying different flavors and picking up sugar cubes with pretty tongs. The lemon bars were my favorite, but everything was delicious. I'm glad I was introduced to this special location. |
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- Beth 03/31/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Beth,We exist to give others the experience that you just described. To enjoy time with friends and family, and to be reminded of those you love - that is very much a part of who we are and why we exist. I'm so glad you came and enjoyed yourself. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I attended a bridal shower at With Flair yesterday, and was very impressed with the atmosphere, the service, the food, and of course the company... the setting for the shower was bright and sunny, a corner room, which lent itself nicley to such a cheerful event. The food was artfully displayed, plentiful and delicious. thank you so much for making the day so special for all of us who attended. |
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- Gail E. 03/30/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Gail,Thank you for your comments! I'm pleased to know that we made pleasant memories for you at the shower. Please come again anytime. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: My Aunts threw my bridal shower at With Flair Tea. We had a wonderful time. We were offered a variety of teas to try; we also enjoyed the many sandwiches (especially the chicken salad) and cakes! We did not feel pressured to leave at any time, and the service was wonderful. I couldn't say anything better! |
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- Jennifer 03/30/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Jennifer,Thank you for having your bridal shower at With Flair, and congratulations on your upcoming nuptials. We love facilitating such happy occasions and blessing you as you start your new life. I hope you tasted the love and good wishes that we baked right into your food! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I attended a bridal shower and the Flair Tea Room was a wonderful experience! I can't wait to come back for lunch soon. The atmosphere was absolutely wonderful. The service was fantastic, the food and desserts were delicious, and the variety of teas were excellent. |
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- Jenny 03/30/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Jenny,I'm so glad you felt the love that we try to share through food and atmosphere at my tea room. It was my heart to bless your group, and I would love to have you come by for lunch again anytime. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: Everyone is raving over yesterday's bridal shower. What a fabulous idea to have the party at With Flair! The Royal Tea finger foods were so fresh and fun and the teas were delicious. It was so much fun tasting several. Pam was so accommodating, friendly, and sweet. Her staff provided great service and the setting was perfect for a shower. I'd host another event at With Flair in a heart beat and hope to have the opportunity to do so in the future. Thanks again, Pam! |
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- Ginny 03/30/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Ginny,On behalf of my staff and I, we appreciated the opportunity to serve you at the bridal shower and hope that you will come and do future events with us. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: Just arrived home from my niece's bridal shower at the With Flair Tea Room. What a treat! The food was delicious and the presentation was beautiful. We were served a wonderful variety of teas. It was the perfect setting to celebrate such a special occasion. The owner, Pam, was very gracious and accommodating. We were not rushed at all and she delivered impeccable service throughout the entire experience. Can't wait to host another event at With Flair and to visit often for lunch with friends! |
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- Cindy 03/29/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Cindy,Thank you so much for your comments! I absolutely love helping to make such special occasions memorable for people. I'm so glad you enjoyed yourself. Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: When I was pregnant with my daughter in 2005 my friends and family looked for the prefect place to host my baby shower. They chose With Flair and I was so glad they did! It was just perfect! We loved everything about it and it made my day so special as we celebrated the little girl who would soon be joining us! My daughter will be 4 this summer and I plan on looking into a tea party here for her birthday! (we also love to stop in for lunch!) :) |
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- Shannon 03/09/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Shannon,You are so sweet! We really enjoyed having your group at the Tea Room for your Baby Shower, and we'd love to do a Children's Dress Up Tea Party for your daughter. She will love it! We hope to see you soon for lunch! |
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Variety: I hosted a Bridal Shower at With Flair on Friday 13 and was VERY pleased with the outcome! Everyone seemed to enjoy themselves and the food,teas and atmosphere were excellent!I was more relaxed than I have been in a while and Pam was very accomodating to changes and requests! Will plan another function there for sure! Thanx,Pam! |
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- Donna A 02/16/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Donna,Thank you for your kind words! We aim to please! Thanks for allowing us to be a party of your special memories and we look forward to being able to help you with other events in the future! Sincerely, Pam |
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Variety: I attended a bridal shower at the tearoom on Friday, February 13. It was amazing! The setting was intimate and formal, the teas were fabulous, and the food was dynamic! Nothing was dry, or lacking filling. I am now going to be a regular! I wish I had the recipe for the chicken salad and the scones! I have never had a scone that was mouth watering! Not even in England! We all had a great time, and Pam was very accomodating of minor changes! |
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- Kelly Rippard 02/14/09 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Kelly,Wow, what a compliment! Thank you so much, I was thrilled and honored to be a part of your special day! |
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Variety: We recently hosted our son and daughter-in-law's wedding rehearsal dinner at With Flair. Everyone raved about the food, beautiful setting and the relaxing atmosphere! Pam was so accommodating with our menu, we were pretty specific about the food choices, and the food was excellent, I would love to have that crab cake recipe. Pam and her staff were so efficient and quickly responded to our every request. It felt like we were in someone's home, very comfortable. I can only say that it was a wonderful experience and I would highly recommend With Flair! Thanks Pam!!! |
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- Donna Myers 12/28/08 |
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Tearoom Response
Dear Donna,You are so welcome! Really the pleasure was ours to serve you and your guests on such a happy occasion. Sincerely, Pam Fogle |






